FAQ
Here are a few common questions we've been getting - and some answers! Can't find what you're looking for? Just reach out - we're happy to help.
Why Two Weddings?
A few reasons! We wanted to make it official in a simple, meaningful way with our children by our side. But we also want to celebrate this next chapter with all the people we love - hence the dinner now and the bigger party later.
What Do I Wear?
Truly, whatever you want. Be comfortable. That said, we will be in formal wear and this will be photographed. Most will be in cocktail attire.
Can I Give a Toast or Speech at Dinner?
Absolutely! We'd love to hear from anyone who wants to share a story, a toast, or well wishes. No need to ask permission - just grab a glass and speak from the heart when the moment feels right.
Will There Be Photos?
Yes! We'll have a QR code to upload your photos to a digital album and we'll share all of those and the professional photos here, as soon as they're available.
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Feel free to post any photos to social media except those of the bride and groom.
Do I Get a Plus One?
We're keeping this celebration as intimate as possible so we're unable to accommodate plus-ones.
What About 2026?
We're planning a bigger celebration on October 31, 2026 (yes, Halloween!) where we can really party with everyone. Think of this dinner as the intimate preview. More details and formal invitations will come as we get closer.